How many tears you’ve cried to free yourself from the hurt that is hunting you every night. When all you feel is sadness because good memories flashes back those times when you are still happy together. It is not easy to forgive someone who broke your heart. When you thought he will be there forever, but sadly he’s gone all of a sudden
1. Acceptance
How many tears you’ve cried to free yourself from the hurt that is hunting you every night. When all you feel is sadness because good memories flashes back those times when you are still happy together. Life is no fairy tale, no immortality, it must have to come to an end and that’s the sad reality.
2. Mingle with friends
At some point in our life we chose LOVE over FRIENDSHIP without realizing the essence of genuine friendship because we are so overwhelmed to the love we received from our partner that we already forgot the value of friends’love, so weigh things out. In your downest moment, remember that friends are people who knows all about you and love you just the same.
3. Forgiveness
It is not easy to forgive someone who broke your heart. When you thought he will be there forever, but sadly he’s gone all of a sudden. Time heals a broken wound, sooner your broken heart will be back into pieces, strengthen by the test of time – against all odds.
4. Seek closure
Open your heart to possibilities of being hurt, fool around, used hundred times and murder your feelings over again but never let him leave your doors open to uncertainties. You have to put a clear mark as to where your relationship is at the moment, and do not leave it hanging there. You don’t need good words to end a misery, walk the line and stop where it ends.
5. Stop communication (Temporarily)
From the moment you close your eyes, til you wake up in the morning you are so use with his greetings/messages – This is the hardest part of moving on. You will be tempt to write words for him as part of the usual things you do, the only difference is IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE AT ALL this time. To avoid being hurt, it is better to delete his number, unfriend him in all your social media accounts and limit your gathered info about him, that way you will learn to accept his absence which relate to rule#1.
6. Explore new things
The world has so much to offer, we just need to explore and focus on the things we love. When we are in a relationship sometimes our world revolves only to our partner that we fail to appreciate other beautiful things that surrounds us – people, place and events.
7. Don’t be afraid to love again
Time has passed by and we thought hurt doesn’t have any right to stop us from loving again entirely because we are afraid to get wounded all over again and cry for the same reasons over a wrong person. To all the ones who are scared, bitter and hard, Don’t be afraid to love again. Life is a constant change, one love is never the same for a different heart.