More often lies lead to misunderstanding, chaos and heartbreak. But why people Lie when they don’t need To? Believe it or not,other lies makes some sense, when you look at it in a context to save a relationship.
1. It’s Not a Lie To Them
When lies eats your soul and keep believing yourself of false truth. This can become so severe that the person almost seems to have created a complete alternate world in their head, one that conforms to their moment-by-moment
beliefs and needs.
2. Telling The Truth Feels Like Giving Up Control
Often, people tell lies because they are trying to control a situation and exert influence toward getting the decisions or reactions they want. The truth can be “inconvenient” because it might not conform to their narrative.
3. Lying Is The Only Scapegoat
When you’re running out of valid reasons and invoke yourself to more questioning, whilst you twisted the truth and mend a better lie which relates to rule#6.
4. To Avoid Disappointment
We portray and act the way we want people to treat us even if our life is a mess and covered with lies. For a lair who wants the world to treat you fairly, you worry the truth might lead you to rejection and shame.
5. To cover up the truth
Lies connotes a negative impression regardless of it’s purpose. To cover up the truth, is a lie and might lead to more complex situation when issues arise in the future. Lies may deviate the issue temporarily but the truth will set you free.
6. Fictional Story Teller
When you get hooked in reading fictional books and you already relate all those out of this world relevance to your
personal life. When lies became a fictional story for you and the truth is left unspoken.
7. To Save a Relationship
White lies may work for some relationship, but pinocchio wouldn’t stop until his worst and have to be punished first
before he realized his mistakes and crooked lies. Remember never to lie to someone who trusts you. Never trust someone who lies to you. We don’t want a relationship filled with lies and infidelity, but again, to lie is a choice.